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If you've read the About Me page you already know I’m Dani and have been behind the camera since 2010. I have blogged in the past a little but I’m excited to reveal new branding, website, and a fresh-faced blog. 

Here I will post fresh glimpses of newborn photography baby photography, family portrait sessions and some boutique weddings along with updates, special events and my views on hot topics in my field. I will also be sharing a little about my life as a photographer, mother of 3, wife, nurse, driver, handy girl and a number of other things. 

I hope you enjoy viewing the new site and I would love for you to follow my posts and comment! If you are interested in getting on my schedule I am booking photography sessions for 2018 and would love the opportunity to plan a baby photoshoot or family portrait session with you! Click here to get in touch.

 

How to choose your wedding planner – guest post by Gilly Keat (Amore Star Events)

March 11, 2015  •  5 Comments

A while ago I met a passionate young woman, very enthusiastic for her business and full of ideas. We've had an inspiring conversation and I thought why not use the fum of social media and web presents and share her spirit with everyone....
Out meeting kicked off the start of a new friendship. Gilly is here today sharing her knowledge and expertise on how to choose your wedding planner.  Gilly is truly a "professional" and you'll understand more about her as she takes you through each step to creating the perfect wedding. Enjoy.

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You might be the kind of person who has been dreaming of this moment your entire life...you walked around with a pillow case on your head humming The Wedding March, borrowed your Mum’s jewelry, shoes and lipstick and had your pet cat reluctantly sitting still as your groom. No? Just me? Ok....maybe you haven’t ever given it much thought, but knew at some point you might entertain the idea of saying, “YES. I WILL MARRY YOU Prince Harry!” – Hey, a girl can dream right?!

So, you’ve said yes. You are officially getting married. You’re excited to be marrying your partner...BUT, there’s something worrying you.... All of a sudden all those people who are congratulating you also start asking you questions, and endless decisions have to be made. Best men, bridesmaids, venues, caterers, florists, dresses, photographer, suits, cakes, decorations. How do I plan a wedding?! Where on earth do I start?!

Worry not my friends, because I am here to help. Along with a little help from some wonderful industry peeps, this is a little helping hand so that you and your partner can make an informed decision when choosing your wedding planner, or it may even help you decipher whether a planner is right for you and your big day.

First off, did you know that there are different types of wedding planners? Nope, neither did I until I developed a love for the industry.

A wedding planner will typically work with you to create your vision and make it become a reality. They will manage all the details of your entire wedding from the initial consultation and design process, all the way through to the ‘I do’ and post wedding clear down. They will make sure you have a fabulous team of suppliers and professionals on board (including a fabulous photographer like my host today) and will be the main point of contact for all those involved, leaving you free to enjoy your day. In the long run, a full service can save the most amount of time and money for a couple. Most wedding planners will also offer ‘on the day’ coordination.

A wedding coordinator is usually picked out when the couple want to be more involved in their big day but just need that extra helping hand to schedule the events of the day and ensure everything runs to time.

A wedding stylist is predominantly brought in to ensure the styling of the wedding is taken to another level, one that is perhaps even more beautiful than the bride could imagine or create herself.

You may well be thinking....I don’t need ALL that. My Aunts, Cousins and Uncle Bob from Timbuktu all want to help with my big day. And that’s great! But as Laura Guerrie points out on Offbeat Bride “No matter how well things are planned and confirmed, something will go wonky on the wedding day. An experienced professional will handle any hiccups in such a way that you and your guests will never know anything unusual happened.”  http://offbeatbride.com/2010/06/do-you-need-a-wedding-planner
If you are under no illusion that you absolutely want and need a type of wedding planner, then your first stop should be The UK Alliance of Wedding Planners (UKAWP) http://www.ukawp.com.  Through membership, mentoring, training courses and specialised events, the UKAWP promote professionalism in wedding planning. All the members are wedding planners that have undergone training, and have been “vetted through their entrance requirements for their honesty, professionalism and experience”. They also abide by the UKAWP’s code of business practice which demonstrates just how seriously they take the industry. I underwent an intensive training course with the UKAWP and have been fortunate enough to work alongside some of their fabulous members. 

Next step would be to check out some of these planners in your local area via search engines, social media, magazines, local press etc. This might throw up a few other alternatives who perhaps aren't members of the UKAWP. Regardless of how you find your planners, ensure that you read each of their websites first and check out any of their social media pages to fully understand how each planner works and their type of style. You should be able to see a portfolio of their previous work and experience and usually testimonials from their past clients too.

Once you have done a bit of research, and before you start interviewing planners, you and your partner should have a good idea of your budget, guest numbers, preferred date and your vision for your day.

As a planner myself I would love it if all the couples that came to see me, came knowing how much I adore the industry, how passionate I am about ensuring that each couple has their perfect wedding day that truly reflects their personality, and how hard I work to eradicate any stress and iron out any issues that arise on the day.  It’s more than likely that my potential clients don’t know any of these facts about me, so it’s my job to deliver these messages to each and every person I meet in a way which resonates with them. I also need to really understand what it is that you’re looking for, how I can help you, and what your dream is to enable me to put together an amazing proposal that sets me apart from all the other wonderful planners out there competing for the same business.

After meeting your potential planners, ask yourself:

- Did my planner really understand what it is that I’m looking for, my dreams, my vision, my hopes for the big day and expand on those ideas?

- Will this planner help me stick to my budget?

- Did this planner make me feel relaxed, and safe in the knowledge that the biggest day of my life will go well under their control?

- Have I seen this planner’s contract, and do I agree with the terms and conditions?

- What exactly will my planner be dealing with, and what’s left for me to do?

- What is the payment policy? Are there any fees that I should be aware of?

- Was there a good rapport between us? Could we work well together?

- Does this planner have public liability insurance?

- Does this planner have some positive reviews or testimonials of previous work?

Once you have (hopefully) picked little old me, then the fun really starts. Depending on your needs and budget, you may just need me to help source a few suppliers (maybe a fabulous photographer like Daniella! Or perhaps organize or schedule and coordinate your day, or even take you step by step through your wedding day dream, designing and planning a day that you will remember for all the right reasons.

If you are the type of person that knows that no one can organize as well as you, you’re on a very tight budget, have an army of helpers willing to help but believe ‘too many cooks spoil the broth’ then perhaps you are your own wedding planner. We don’t suit everybody’s needs, and there happens to be a huge wide world out there jam packed with wedding help. Google the word ‘wedding’. Go on, I dare ya! There are hundreds, upon thousands of articles, images and websites dedicated to helping YOU!

Apart from calling me....obviously...do make sure that you take a step back and record exactly what it is that you and your partner want. One bit of advice that I offer to every single couple I know and work with that gets engaged, is that your wedding day is exactly that. YOUR day. Nobody else. I see too many people having a wedding day perfect for their family, too concerned of what others may think, too concerned with having a ‘Pinterest-Perfect’ wedding day. You know what you want, and I can help, so let’s make it happen.

Sources:

www.ukawp.com
http://offbeatbride.com/
http://blackhillsbride.com/blog/2011/10/mid-engagement-crisis-black-hill-bride-can-help/
http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-planning/planning-a-wedding/articles/13-questions-to-ask-wedding-planners.aspx?MsdVisit=1

Company Information – Gilly Keat and Amore Star Events

My name is Gilly Keat and Amore Star Events is my little passion that is growing steadily. My background is predominantly media based but with a slight obsession for the wedding and event industry. Partnered with an (some might say) unhealthy addiction to organizing and attention to detail, turning my event planning hobby into a reality was the perfect choice.

I get the best of both worlds, I still work during the week within advertising, but spend my spare time in wedding and event heaven. I've been assisting other wedding planners since 2011 and have worked on a variety of events over the years. I have undergone intensive training with the UKAWP and abide by their Codes of Business Practice.

I offer a friendly and highly personalized, meticulous, quality service to all of the wonderful people that I've been lucky enough to work with. I am based in London and focus on planning events in London and the surrounding areas, however I have also planned events further afield.

I'm passionate about challenging the stereotypical event traditions and love including quirky and unusual elements in each celebration that truly reflect the personality of my clients.

You have a dream, ideas and a vision of what you would like your event to look and feel like. I'll strive to make those become your reality.

www.amorestarevents.co.uk
[email protected]
 07756 919598

 


12 Tips of How to Pose Children and Families for a fun Photo session

February 13, 2015  •  Leave a Comment

Photographing the kids is not exactly a job you can easily do. Often kids are a bit reluctant at first when they see a photographer with a big camera and a huge speed light on top. You try to tell them what to do and they will do the opposite right away.  You have a plan, a great game or story in mind but they hate it and are grumpy as Grouchy Smurf. For kids it is actually quite a fun to run away or look on the opposite direction. At the end of the day they just want to run around and posing for you is not their idea of fun.
You could either give up this job or actually go with the flow and enjoy. It is rather amusing believe me, you just need a few tips and a great deal of patience.
If you try to pose a child as an adult they will hate you and it will be the most boring experience in the world. Lets make it enjoyable, something kids will look forward to. Is that possible? It sure is.
What are you trying to capture. Do you want a stiff looking child in a perfect pose or you want to see their personality, smiles or even naughty faces. This is what they are and this is what will make mum and dad love this images.
Not everything will work with every family or  children. Move ahead quickly and see what will work for you this time.
1. KEEP EVERYONE CLOSE TO EACH OTHER - this will provoke some interactions and often result in surprisingly  emotional images. Ask them to touch heads and snuggle close or squish cheeks together.
2. HOLDING HANDS - ask everyone to hold hands and swing them around. This is usually a sure smile and fun and kids don't get freaked out of being close together for too long. They can even jump for even fun. Be prepared for the jump though.
3. PLAY A COPYCAT - ask everyone to copy you even parents while you do a few funny poses. This will get all involved and kids love to see mum and dad with awkward faces. Praise the kids and ask them to make a pose you like to shoot.
4. RUN - ask kids to run away from mum and dad and ask parent to try to hold/snatch kids still. Or move kids at front and ask them to tur around and run to mum and dad. Opposite will do too. This is a tricky one but with practice you can master it and get a real treasure shots.
5. FUNNY FACES - tell everyone to make an angry face, wondering face, crazy face, sad face, funny face, smiley face
6. DANCE/WIGGLE - if you ask the group to wiggle bumps and dance you'll have a huge laugh and a few great shots
7. CHANGE POSITIONS - standing, sitting, laying down. Have chars or suitable for sitting props
8. TICKLE - tell them to tickle each other and watch the fun.
9. QUESTIONS - have a word with mum and dad beforehand what kids like, dislike like favorite funny characters, movies, games etc. Ask them questions what was the funniest thing happening in this movie or book and let them tell you.
10. JOKES - learn a few good old jokes. It is useful to check for appropriate k=jokes according to kids age as they tend to change with age.
11.GET YOURSELF CLOSE - do some close ups of faces, hands or details.
12. IMPROVISE - try variations, think out of the box, keep a whistle, balloons and small treats handy.

For me it is really a good mix of everything and sensing what the mood is and going with the flow. It is very important to have your exposure  checked in advance and just move around shooting and have fun yourself. If you stop every few minutes to get your images checked or change camera settings everyone will get bored quickly and you will struggle.

See the images below. This family came all wet down from the pouring rain outside. Mum and dad din't mind carrying on with the session and here is what we ended up. Messy wet hair and the cutest little sister ever, quite determined to cuddle and kiss her brother. He was a bit older though and not in a mood of kissing but with a little encouragement and tricks we ended up with these. Love them


Newborn baby portraits and photography - how valuable they really are?

January 30, 2015  •  Leave a Comment

We see lots of beautiful and pretty things in live but there is nothing as pure and magical as a newborn baby, is there? Probably only a parent can understand that statement :)
I love babies since my teenage years and thought I know what it is all about....how overbold. I only understood how deep that love and tenderness are after giving birth myself. It feels like it comes from the deepest deep of the Earth's womb, through my feet and up my body straight into my heart. Embedded there forever. 
I believe I speak on behalf of all mothers. Dad's please, no offence. Tell me in the comments below how it is for you. I would love to hear. I am only a mum and can speak from mother's experience.
Well, are baby portraits so valuable?
They are not just valuable, they are priceless! One can style pretty much everything else but this first days of life. In few years you won't remember all this magnificent moments, the way your baby can fit in your palm, the sweetest pouts, the mini size of their living feet and hands, the way they curl up. Their faces and expressions change every day.
The only way to perpetuate this flashes of splendor in time is to capture them in images.
They will always evoke the emotions you felt when you first met your baby and will melt your heart. These images will be your treasure for ever.
What is your experience? Share at the bottom.


Wedding and Engagement Rings Images

January 18, 2015  •  2 Comments

One of my favourite parts in each wedding is to take a few quiet minutes away from party and arrange the photos of the most representative attribute of you social status change - The Wedding Rings


Civil Marriage Ceremony - wedding photography

January 06, 2015  •  6 Comments

The first time I spoke with the bride Vera she was so excited and nice that she got me hooked right away. Often the first impression in any business is crucial of how the things are going to go. Vera was her true self, slightly nervous about the big day but at the same time all smiles and she sounded like no matter what may happens she won't let anything shade on her happiness. This was such a good vibe to begin our work together with. For me personally the radiation of happiness establishes an emotional connection with the couple which makes my job so much fun. An ideal bride attitude relaxed and smiling, only caring about the moment and sharing the best with her closest friends. That is what a wedding day should be all about. I wish all brides forget about creating the perfect day for everyone else rather than focus on themselves and enjoying it in full. 
I didn't met Dan before the wedding day and he was a bit stiff to begin with but look at him later in the day....right to the cigarette at the end.  Looked like he only waited to grab his new bride and dive down into the sentiment.

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